We’ve gotten wind that the free condom bowl in the freshman dorms have emptied quickly. 

There's no shame in having fun during your time here at Howard as long as safety is a top priority (if you’re responsible for the empty bowl, you’re probably on the right track.) Here are four things to consider while being sexually active on campus.

1.STDs and STIs Travel Fast - Get Tested

While most people's first concern when having unprotected sex is the possibility of pregnancy, many forget about the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases and infections (STDs and STIs). 

The Howard University Student Health Center offers STD and STI screenings on Wednesdays and Fridays by appointment, which you can schedule via their website. 

Planned Parenthood, a non-profit organization that provides reproductive health care, is another option for checking your status. Their website directs you to the nearest clinic for whatever service you need. Remember, some STDs and STIs can be asymptomatic; be proactive. 

2. Just Because They Are Cute, Doesn't Mean They Are Negative 

They may be fine, but don't let sex distract you from practicing safe sex habits. While there is nothing wrong with being infatuated with your partner, it’s important to be cautious. When having sexual relations, avoid making assumptions about your partner's status. Always ask when they were last tested; it’s better to have the conversation sooner rather than later. Remember, STDs and STIs have no specific look—they can affect anyone, so always be careful. 

3. Birth Control Was Created For A Reason…Use It. You're Not Invincible.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the "pull-out method" is not effective birth control. Wrap it up every single time you get in the mood—I promise it won’t ruin the vibe. Try to remember to have your own on hand if you know you plan on getting it on. You can use the ones found in the dorm’s complimentary bowl or buy them from your local convenience store.

For women who have concerns about unwanted pregnancy, intrauterine devices (IUDs), Nexplanon, and birth control pills are all great options to be paired with condoms. With several forms of birth control offered, you may be able to find one that works best for your body and current lifestyle. But if not, condoms should suffice. 

4. Sex Is Just As Mental As It Is Physical - Be With Someone You Trust

 Sex can play a role in the state of your mental health. According to Psycom, sex can be linked to conditions such as depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and even obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

So, choose your partner wisely. Prioritize your comfortability and be with someone who makes you feel safe. Having a sense of security in a sexually active relationship can allow you to have an enjoyable experience and feel more open to discussing things such as other sexual partners, STDs, STIs, and possible pregnancy scares with your partner.

Being sexually active while on campus can be a blast, but with these four tips, you can be safe & sexy!